Fill Number 2

Okay, so I got my second fill - one whole cc... ( I'm wondering, why are they being so cheap with the saline?). I am up to four ccs now - weight loss thus are is slow, but steady and to be honest I am living normally. I've lost 31 pounds so far (need to change my ticker) and I haven't starved myself at all. I am blessed that I can still eat everything with no problems. I am a bit more active because my body allows me to now, but I really haven't been exercising a whole lot. I enjoy my Wii Fit, but that is when I have time and lately I have no time. I am proud to say I did go down a pants size and my shoes are getting big on me. Will keep you all posted. By the way I still have that pain in shoulder, thankfully it is not constant.

Yay for me...

So after obsessing over the scale at what it isn't saying, I found an bit of success that is worth more than a pound. I was walking with two colleagues in the cold and rain, rushing to get to our car and sure enough I was able to keep up with them. Usually, I would be winded or say for them to go on ahead, but not this time. This time I help my own. Yay for me.

Another Day...

Another day of more than the same, but with little differences.

People are finally starting to take notice of my weight loss and that is really nice. However, people think that my having the surgery was supposed to be this quick fix and I guess they are surprised that I haven't lost more. I also think they are surprised to see that I am able to eat regular food (I surprise myself with that as well). It's weird I almost feel guilty eating in front of certain people to the point that I find myself being a bit spiteful about my choices. Don't get me wrong I'm not eating a Big Mac or anything like that, but I think I am expected to eat only salads and tofu and that is not who I am. I like food and while I am certainly eating less of it, I am still eating it. I will be on vacation next week and my hope is that I can try some new recipes so that I can eat a variety of things that are healthier for me as I recognize that I am in a dangerous place. Truth is I am, thus far, able to eat the exact same way I ate before - except I eat less of it and stay full longer. I am envious of all those who are able to say things like I ate four bites and I was totally satisfied - is that for real or is it really mind of matter. I have tried having a yogurt for breakfast and it just doesn't cut it- I am hungry in an hour. Oatmeal sustains me longer, but still. Anyway I am happy with where I am at and I acknowledge that I am not doing all that I need to, to make this work for me - ( I need to get myself exercising) - although I have one hundred excuses as to why I am not doing that. I guess the truth is I am a very bad bandster. Perhaps I need a really good talking to.

First Fill...

So yesterday I got my first fill - a whole 3ccs. Let's see what difference it makes. I'll tell you this much... it was definitely a weird sensation. I was so nervous about it that I got nauseous . Like everyone says it's really not bad at all, but the process is really intimidating.

After all that beating myself up and I actually hadn't gained anything back. On the contrary, I'd lost an extra pound bringing my weight loss to 22 pounds. While I am proud of that, I spend a bit too much time thinking about how much I could have lost had I done the right thing. This is a learning experience for me and I am discovering a lot about myself and my addiction to food.

I am the kind of person that respects boundaries that I know I can't cross, once I know I can I will push it. Which is what had happened. I had thought that after surgery hunger wouldn't be an issue and that is kind of true, as the cravings aren't as extreme. I also thought I'd get satisfied on bits of things and that wasn't true after three weeks (when my stomach had healed). Granted I am not eating like I did before, but truth is I ate waiting for my body to send my brain a message to stop and that message didn't come.

With that said I take this fill, along with the two days of liquid diet I was told to follow (I didn't know I had to do that after a fill) and remind myself that my mind is in charge. No more waiting for messages/signals of this is what full feels like. Instead I will serve myself and eat what my brain says is satisfying.

Lets see what happens. I go back in six weeks for my next appointment.

Countdown to Friday...

At this point I feel so desperate. I so want to get my first fill. I tested the limits and went way beyond and need something to reel me back in. I am so out of control and each day I say today will be a better day and by the time the day comes to a close I am disappointed in myself. I gained back around 3 pounds (refuse to step on the scale) and I can't get passed it. I feel like I want to start over. I have not been sick nor thrown up, nevertheless I am praying I didn't cause any permanent damage. How is it possible though with me knowing that damage I could possibly cause to myself that I overeat anyway? I guess I need more help than I realized. Hopefully, the fill does what I need it to do.

Searching for After...

So here I am a month and five days after being banded and I am just a drop closer to finding "after." For more than fifteen years all the pictures of me have been "befores," the kind that you just want to delete, and I so want to find the after me to photograph. Sometimes when I see pictures of me I'm shocked by what's before me because it really isn't how I view myself. I want so much more. This journey is far from a quick fix and the eating limits are way more than expected. I know that no one wants to vomit or feel the pressure of being full, but I thought I'd get a stop sign of sorts and that hasn't been there for me. I almost want to go back to the liquid diet because there I felt safe. Its kind of depressing to have gone through all this to find that I still have a problem. I know I need to stay supported. I need to know that doing this is within my power and its all about control. I just need to take control and I am not sure how.